Have You Walked in My Shoes?

From the moment a baby girl is born, she begins to forge a path and navigate a course that will be unique to only her. From a baby, she will grow through adolescence into teenagerhood and finally on into adulthood. If she were to compare her life with that of any other woman, she may find commonalities, but she will never find another woman who has had every experience she has had. That makes her earthly journey unique and incomparable to the journey of other women.
Despite the apparent differences from one woman to the next, leading to incomplete knowledge of another woman's plight, women all over the world have stood in judgment of other women, leading to backbiting, slander, strife, and soiled reputations. When this behavior exists in the church, it impedes the progress the local church makes in building the kingdom of God. This behavior renders women as pawns for Satan's entertainment and his ridicule against God.
How can women cease being pawns for the enemy and become Kingdom builders?